marriage - DIALOGUE - Depth Psychology Alliance2024-03-29T06:44:18Zhttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/feed/tag/marriageUnconscious? Listen to my interview with Dr. Dan Ariely on the hidden logic behind our motivations! http://tinyurl.com/zvthqyyhttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/unconscious-listen-to-my-interview-with-dr-dan-ariely-on-the2016-10-20T16:17:29.000Z2016-10-20T16:17:29.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><div id="attachment_5829" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="http://shrinkrapradio.com/images/Dan-Ariely-1.jpg"><img src="http://shrinkrapradio.com/images/Dan-Ariely-1.jpg" alt="Dan Ariely Fuqua faculty" width="165" height="248" class="size-full wp-image-5829"/></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Dan Ariely<br/>Fuqua faculty</p>
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<p><a href="http://pi@danariely.com/" target="_blank">Dan Ariely PhD</a> is the James B. Duke Professor of Psychology & Behavioral Economics at Duke University. He is the founder and director of the Center for Advanced Hindsight, co-creator of the lm documentary (Dis)Honesty: The Truth About Lies, and a three-time New York Times bestselling author. His books include Predictably Irrational, The Upside of Irrationality, The Honest Truth About Dishonesty, and Irrationally Yours.<br/>He lives in Durham, North Carolina with his wife, Sumi, and their two ador- able children, Amit and Neta.<br/><span id="more-5828"></span></p>
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<p>David Van Nuys, PhD<br/>Creator/Host of Shrink Rap Radio</p></div>Free transcript of my interview with Dr. Sue Johnson on the science of romantic relationships!https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/free-transcript-of-my-interview-with-dr-sue-johnson-on-the2015-04-08T15:44:51.000Z2015-04-08T15:44:51.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><h2 class="entry-title">385 – The Science of Romantic Relationships with Sue Johnson PhD</h2>
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<p><a href="http://drsuejohnson.com/" title="Sue Johnson Website" target="_blank">Sue Johnson PhD</a> is an author, clinical psychologist, researcher, professor, popular presenter and speaker and one of the leading innovators in the field of couple therapy. Individuals, couples and practicing therapists all turn to Sue for her insight and guidance.</p>
<p>She is the primary developer of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) which has demonstrated its effectiveness in over 25 years of peer-reviewed clinical research.</p>
<p>As author of the best-selling book: Hold Me Tight, Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, Sue Johnson has created for the general public, a self-help version of her groundbreaking research about relationships – how to enhance them, how to repair them and how to keep them.<br/>Her most recent book, Love Sense, The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships outlines the new logical understanding of why and how we love – based on new scientific evidence and cutting-edge research. Explaining that romantic love is based on an attachment bond, Dr. Johnson shows how to develop our “love sense” – our ability to develop long-lasting relationships.<br/><span id="more-3149"></span><br/>Sue Johnson is founding Director of the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Distinguished Research Professor at Alliant University in San Diego, California, as well as Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Ottawa, Canada.<br/>Dr. Johnson’s best known professional books include, The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Creating Connection (2004) and Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy with Trauma Survivors (2002).</p>
<p>She trains therapists in EFT worldwide and consults to Veterans Affairs, the U.S. and Canadian military and New York City Fire Department.</p>
<p>She lives in Ottawa with her husband. She adores Gilbert and Sullivan, Monty Python, Argentine tango and kayaking on Canada’s northern lakes.</p>
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<p>David Van Nuys, PhD<br/>Creator/Host of Shrink Rap Radio</p></div>Free transcript of my interview on Lifelong Love with psychologists Phyllis Koch-Sheras PhD and Peter Sheras PhD!https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/free-transcript-of-my-interview-on-lifelong-love-with2015-04-07T16:07:36.000Z2015-04-07T16:07:36.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><p><a href="http://shrinkrapradio.com/images/Phyllis-Peter-Sheras.jpg"><img src="http://shrinkrapradio.com/images/Phyllis-Peter-Sheras.jpg" alt="Phyllis & Peter Sheras" width="165" height="110" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-2748"/></a></p>
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<p>Peter L. Sheras, PhD, ABPP, is a clinical psychologist and a professor in the University of Virginia’s Curry Programs in Clinical and School Psychology. He has been in part-time independent practice for nearly 30 years and has authored publications on couples, parenting, youth violence, and adolescent development, including Your Child: Bully or Victim? Understanding and Ending Schoolyard Tyranny (2002), and Clinical Psychology: A Social Psychological Approach (1979). He holds a diplomate in clinical psychology, is a past fellow of the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists, and past president of the Virginia Psychological Association. He appears frequently as an expert in the media on topics of couples, adolescents, and families. He received his doctorate from Princeton University. </p>
<p>Phyllis R. Koch-Sheras, PhD, is a practicing clinical psychologist and coauthor of several books on dreams and couples, including The Dream Sharing Sourcebook (1998). She is past president of the Virginia Applied Psychology Academy and the Virginia Psychological Association. She received her doctorate from the University of Texas and has worked in state hospitals, university counseling centers, and independent practice. She was previously the Director of Training for the University of Virginia Counseling Center. Dr. Koch-Sheras is a Bon Buddhist practitioner.</p>
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<p>David Van Nuys, PhD<br/>Creator/Host of Shrink Rap Radio</p></div>Listen to my interview on Couples at The Crossroads with psychodynamic Dr. Roher & Jungian Analyst Dr. Schwartz!https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/listen-to-my-interview-on-couples-at-the-crossroads-with2013-09-12T15:30:08.000Z2013-09-12T15:30:08.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><p>Daniela Roher, Ph.D. has spent nearly forty years in a career that has spanned three countries in two continents. Dr. Roher’s passion for her work stems from a deep interest in human interactions and connections and keeps her at the forefront of the new science of relationships. She continuously studies and applies treatment models that best help couples identify, understand, address and resolve interpersonal issues, in order to bring intimacy and deeper connection back into their love relationships.<br/>Born in Italy, Dr. Roher attended the Universities of Torino in Italy, Cambridge in England, Wayne State University in the US and the Michigan Psychoanalytic Institute. The experiences she gained from her studies in different countries nurtured her discipline and love of knowledge and her appreciation of the many ways in which different cultures affect and shape the human mind. From her many years of studying and practicing as a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, she brings an ever deepening understanding of the human journey, with all its challenges and rewards.<span id="more-2878"></span></p>
<p>Dr. Roher lives in Arizona where she has a private practice. When not in her office, her love for the desert keeps her outdoors, not wanting to miss any opportunity to be in touch with nature and observe the miracles that constantly unfold. She is also an avid blogger on various psychological topics, with a special focus on couples’ areas of conflict. To learn more about Dr. Roher’s practice and to read her blogs, visit <a href="http://www.drroherphd.com">www.drroherphd.com</a></p>
<p>Susan E. Schwartz, PhD is a Jungian analyst trained in Zürich, Switzerland, as well as a licensed clinical psychologist with a private practice in Paradise Valley, Arizona. With Daniela Roher, Ph.D. she co-authored the book, Couples at the Crossroads: Five Steps to Finding Your Way Back to Love. Their website for the book is <a href="http://www.couplesatthecrossroads.com">www.couplesatthecrossroads.com</a>.</p>
<p>For many years Susan has enjoyed giving workshops and presentations at various venues, and has lectured worldwide on Jungian analytical psychology. She is the author of several journal articles on daughters and fathers, the puella archetype, Sylvia Plath in the online journal Plath Profiles, a chapter in the four editions of Counseling and Psychotherapy textbook and a chapter in Perpetual Adolescence: Jungian Analyses of American Media, Literature, and Pop Culture. She is a member of the New Mexico Society of Jungian Analysts, the International Association of Analytical Psychology and the American Psychological Association. Her website is <a href="http://www.susanschwartzphd.com">www.susanschwartzphd.com</a></p>
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<p>David Van Nuys, PhD<br/>Creator/Host of Shrink Rap Radio</p></div>The Artistry of The Artisthttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/the-artisry-of-the-artist2012-02-12T22:10:24.000Z2012-02-12T22:10:24.000ZThom F. Cavalli, Ph.D.https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/ThomFCavalliPhD<div><p><strong>Spoiler Alert:</strong> Don't read this review if you haven't seen the movie yet (unless you're the type that reads the book before the movie comes out!)</p>
<blockquote><p>My first reaction was tinged with a small bit of disappointment. The hype had lead me to anticipate a great film experience. So much of the film relied on the nostalgia of old time silent films, along with its melodramatic theme, that I was left with a pleasant but unsatisfying feeling. I thought how much better the film might have been if Woody Allen had directed it! But, the unconscious picked up on clues that during the night reveal the mastery of this (indeed) great film. What makes this movie work is precisely what it isn't. When you expect the leading man to have a torrid love affair with the (ultimately) leading lady, nothing happens! As from a few avuncular hugs and a twinkle in Peppy's eyes, there is no sex, none, <em>nada</em>! She admires him and he adores her, but words fail to bring them together. He is the archetype of (unrealized) masculinity - handsome, charming, a showman - a caricature of the young hero, and she is the archetypal <em>anima</em> figure. What better theme to play out this drama than a setting built on projection, cinematic and psychological. (Recall the scene where he stands before the projector and his shadow walks off the screen.) Fate brings him to attempt suicide before he can accept her love, not pity on his part and not codependency on hers. It is she who provides the solution that brings them together. Of course, this is what the <em>anima</em> does best - relates. In this case, it is (the sacred) dance that offers them union. It its breathy conclusion, the film closes with a dance scene that simulates coitus, but this love transcends the mundane and brings us to the altar where the royal marriage is performed for the whole world to see and appreciate.</p>
</blockquote></div>Love's mysteries? Listen to my chat with psychologist Beverly Palmer on demystifying love!https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/love-s-mysteries-listen-to-my-chat-with-psychologist-beverly2019-10-18T03:56:45.000Z2019-10-18T03:56:45.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-207868" src="https://shrinkrapradio.com/images/Beverly-Palmer-165x165.jpg" alt="" width="165" height="165"/></p>
<p><span>Beverly B. Palmer, Ph.D. is a professor emeritus of psychology at California State University, Dominguez Hills and a clinical psychologist in private practice in Torrance, California. Her academic knowledge and clinical understanding uniquely qualifies her to demystify love, which she has done in her recently published book,Love Demystified: Strategies for a Successful Love Life. She has used scientifically grounded studies to enlighten numerous students in her psychology courses and to counsel couples with relationship issues. She has publications and presentations on love, relationships, interpersonal skills, and sexuality. The American Psychological Association lists her as a scientific expert on interpersonal attraction and relationships for journalists to consult. She also has been happily married to her psychiatrist husband for 50 years, partially because she has lived the strategies that help build a lasting loving relationship</span><span>.</span></p>
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<p><a href="https://youtu.be/O-QDTXph1wc" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Click here for video clip</a></p></div>Seeking equality? Listen to my interview with Jungian Analyst Polly Young-Eisendrath PhD about Relationship as a Spiritual Path!https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/seeking-equality-listen-to-my-interview-with-jungian-analyst2019-03-06T22:32:33.000Z2019-03-06T22:32:33.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><img class="wp-image-207086" src="https://shrinkrapradio.com/images/Polly-Young-Eisendrath.jpeg" alt=""/>
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<p>Dr. Polly Young-Eisendrath has lectured and appeared on discussion panels for numerous public events and conferences, such as TEDx, The Aspen Institute, Omega Institute, Mind and Life Institute, Pacifica Graduate Institute, The Rowe Center, and The Helix Center. She also hosts a podcast called Enemies which analyzes human hostilities and applies psychology, psychoanalysis, art, spirituality, and relational theory in conversations about belonging and othering in our relationships and ideologies.</p>
<p>Polly Young-Eisendrath, PhD, is a Jungian analyst, psychologist, and psychotherapist in private practice. She is the clinical associate professor of psychiatry at the University of Vermont and the founder and director of the Institute for Dialogue Therapy. She is past president of the Vermont Association for Psychoanalytic Studies and a founding member of the Vermont Institute for the Psychotherapies. Polly is also the chairperson of Enlightening Conversations, a series of conversational conferences that bring together participants from the front lines of Buddhism and psychoanalysis. Polly has published sixteen books, as well as many chapters and articles, that have been translated into more than twenty languages, including The Self-Esteem Trap: Raising Confident and Compassionate Kids in an Age of Self-Importance and The Present Heart: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Discovery, and Love Between Equals: Relationship As A Spiritual Path.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.gottman.com/" target="_blank">Dr. Julie Gottman</a> is the Co-Founder and President of The Gottman Institute. A highly respected clinical psychologist, she is sought internationally by media and organizations as an expert advisor on marriage, domestic violence, gay and lesbian adoption, same-sex marriage, and parenting issues. She is the co-creator of the immensely popular The Art and Science of Love weekend workshop for couples and she also co-designed the national clinical training program in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.<span id="more-5128"></span></p>
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<p>David Van Nuys, PhD<br/>Creator/Host of Shrink Rap Radio</p></div>Free Transcript! Psychoanalytic and Jungian Perspectives on Couples at the Crossroads with Drs. Roher & Schwartz!https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/free-transcript-psychoanalytic-and-jungian-perspectives-on2013-09-27T18:19:49.000Z2013-09-27T18:19:49.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><p>Daniela Roher, Ph.D. has spent nearly forty years in a career that has spanned three countries in two continents. Dr. Roher’s passion for her work stems from a deep interest in human interactions and connections and keeps her at the forefront of the new science of relationships. She continuously studies and applies treatment models that best help couples identify, understand, address and resolve interpersonal issues, in order to bring intimacy and deeper connection back into their love relationships.<br/>Born in Italy, Dr. Roher attended the Universities of Torino in Italy, Cambridge in England, Wayne State University in the US and the Michigan Psychoanalytic Institute. The experiences she gained from her studies in different countries nurtured her discipline and love of knowledge and her appreciation of the many ways in which different cultures affect and shape the human mind. From her many years of studying and practicing as a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, she brings an ever deepening understanding of the human journey, with all its challenges and rewards.<span id="more-2878"></span></p>
<p>Dr. Roher lives in Arizona where she has a private practice. When not in her office, her love for the desert keeps her outdoors, not wanting to miss any opportunity to be in touch with nature and observe the miracles that constantly unfold. She is also an avid blogger on various psychological topics, with a special focus on couples’ areas of conflict. To learn more about Dr. Roher’s practice and to read her blogs, visit <a href="http://www.drroherphd.com">www.drroherphd.com</a></p>
<p>Susan E. Schwartz, PhD is a Jungian analyst trained in Zürich, Switzerland, as well as a licensed clinical psychologist with a private practice in Paradise Valley, Arizona. With Daniela Roher, Ph.D. she co-authored the book, Couples at the Crossroads: Five Steps to Finding Your Way Back to Love. Their website for the book is <a href="http://www.couplesatthecrossroads.com">www.couplesatthecrossroads.com</a>.</p>
<p>For many years Susan has enjoyed giving workshops and presentations at various venues, and has lectured worldwide on Jungian analytical psychology. She is the author of several journal articles on daughters and fathers, the puella archetype, Sylvia Plath in the online journal Plath Profiles, a chapter in the four editions of Counseling and Psychotherapy textbook and a chapter in Perpetual Adolescence: Jungian Analyses of American Media, Literature, and Pop Culture. She is a member of the New Mexico Society of Jungian Analysts, the International Association of Analytical Psychology and the American Psychological Association. Her website is <a href="http://www.susanschwartzphd.com">www.susanschwartzphd.com</a></p>
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<p>David Van Nuys, PhD<br/>Creator/Host of Shrink Rap Radio</p></div>Got soul mate? Listen to my interview with Dr. John Amodeo on Mindfulness and Loving Relationships!https://depthpsychologyalliance.com/forum/topics/got-soul-mate-listen-to-my-interview-with-dr-john-amodeo-on2013-09-26T16:00:15.000Z2013-09-26T16:00:15.000ZDavid Van Nuyshttps://depthpsychologyalliance.com/members/DavidVanNuys<div><p><a href="http://www.johnamodeo.com/" title="Dr. Amodeo's Website" target="_blank">John Amodeo PhD</a><span> has been a licensed marriage and family therapist for over thirty years. He is the author of the new book, Dancing with Fire: A Mindful Way to Loving Relationships. His other books include The Authentic Heart and Love & Betrayal, which have just been translated into Mandarin. He co-authored a chapter with Sue Johnson on EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy) and Buddhism in The Emotionally Focused Casebook and he is a certified Focusing Trainer. He is a former writer and contributing editor for Yoga Journal, an adjunct faculty member of Meridian University, and has conducted workshops internationally on relationships and couples therapy. He has appeared as a featured guest on programs that included CNN, CNBC, Donahue, and New Dimensions Radio.</span></p>
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